2010年12月作文
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2010年12月作文

As a consequence of the “Fammily Planning” policy, almost all Chineses families have only one child. To shelter children from any harm, parents expect to offer the best conditions to their children. Thus, there emerges, in contemporary China, a trend that parents determine everything for their children.

This trend erodes children’s ability of independence, creating a “beat generation”. The key to changing the tide, in my eyes, is that parents as guardians and the first teachers in children’s life should be a guide instead of a servant. To put it in other words, parents should be in the position of giving children instructions, while the people who implement the instructions should be children themselves. Indeed, during this process, children may encounter setbacks or make mistakes. Parents then, instead of rushing to help, should guide children to find out the causes and come up with solutions.

By doing this, children will be able to learn how to deal with complicated situations, tackle difficulties, and overcome obstacles on their own.

Nowadays, there is a growing concern over such a phenomenon, that is, some parents take care of almost everything concerned with their children, including study, work, and marriage. Some parents believe that this is love; however, it is only to destroy children’s independence thoroughly. For the future of the next generation, more efforts should be made by parents to help their children to be independent. The fundamental one is to cultivate the awareness, namely, the importance and necessity of being independent, which is supposed to begin from childhood. Children should be taught that no one can be stronger and more helpful than themselves in this world.

The quality of independence is so indispensable for us that parents had better act as a tutor, not a dictator. And only with parent’s trust, can the next generation accumulate confidence step by step.

There is no denying the fact that independence plays an increasingly important part in our daily life and we can’t help asking such a question: how should parents help children to be independent?

To begin with, it is imperative that parents provide opportunities to children and allow them to participate in the social games which contribute to the independence of the children. What’s more, under the excessive care and protection of parents, these children are lack of the ability to overcome the difficulties that abound in their real life. Therefore, it’s a must for parents to cultivate the independence which hel ps their children easily conquer and frustration and depression.

To conclude, it's essential for us to dispose of the problem of children’s independence timely and effectively. Parents should help children develop strong independence and the abilities needed in the future. Only in this way can they be ready to confront any challenges in the society of fierce competition.

In recent days, we have to face a problem____________, which is becoming more and more serious. ________________

Confronted with ________, we should take a series of effective measures to cope with the situation. For one thing, __________. For another _______________. Finally, ____________.

Personally, I believe that ________________. Consequently, I’m confident that a bright future is awaiting us because ________________.